Most often in practice, we see the postpartum anxiety trend. I find women are more likely to identify with anxiety than depression. We use the word ‘anxiety’ to explain our stress. Still, I want to help women realise the difference between adjusting to the overwhelming new lifestyle of being a new mom versus postpartum anxiety.
In the first two weeks, once you’ve had your baby, we have the baby blues period. During that time, you experience massive swings in emotion. You can go from being overjoyed to crying at the drop of a hat. The significant shift in our hormones causes this. Typically days three to five are the worst for women, but it can be expected anytime within those first two weeks.
When we differentiate that from what typical postpartum depression and anxiety look like, we see a lot more severe or persistent emotions. So not swinging from happy to sad, but consistently high anxiety or low mood over days to weeks to months.
Many patients who come into the office don’t necessarily realise that it doesn’t have to be the extreme things we see in the movies. Now and then, women can get to the point where they’re suicidal or scared they will harm their baby. But we’re also looking at things like women not being able to fall asleep at night because they’re so anxious about what will happen or having unrealistic fears. Sometimes women feel like they can’t co
ect with their babies because they have postpartum depression. Additionally, seeing posts on Instagram about how “this is the best time of your life and enjoy every moment” makes it even harder for them. I want women to see that they can fall anywhere on that scale. And any kind of support can be helpful.